Thursday, May 2, 2013

aretheregirlsonthisserver:

Rather than join Gus Against Them at the May Day protests, Black Dahlia Parton invites Amy Dentata over to flesh out their plan to infiltrate the women’s struggle.*

*THIS IS WHAT RADFEMS ACTUALLY BELIEVE

Geeky Topics Discussed: Video game development, the accidental feminism of the new Judge Dredd movie, Amy plugs her new game Rock Bottom.

Social Justice Topics Discussed: The transsexual plot to sabotage the women’s movement, the myth of the universal girlhood experience, navigating oppressive humor.

Non Geeky Topics Discussed: BDP’s interest in doing porn, women’s experiences with depression, trans/trans relationships.

Black Dahlia Parton and I talk about gender, videogames, trangst, and have an awesome intense insightful time.

Friday, April 26, 2013
Announcing an easier way to purchase Bite!
Name your own price, no pesky PayPal. Because dealing with cissexism day-in and day-out is bad enough without shady conservative payment processors acting as middlemen between you and your community.
Check it out here.

Announcing an easier way to purchase Bite!

Name your own price, no pesky PayPal. Because dealing with cissexism day-in and day-out is bad enough without shady conservative payment processors acting as middlemen between you and your community.

Check it out here.

Friday, March 29, 2013

Pitfalls of the Industry

Life is like a hurricane. Here in. Game dev. Sexists, neckbeards, threats of rape. It’s some. Bullshit.

Might deny privilege, assault some women! DOUCHEBROS, WOO-OO!

Every day they’re out there whining. DOUCHEBROS, WOO-OO!

Males making spaces unsafe. DOUCHEBROS, WOO-OO!
 
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Saturday, March 16, 2013

formlessforce:

The funniest thing in the world is straight guys who hit on random women they don’t know but have this indignant fear that a gay man is going to hit on them

Like, they’re aware of how uncomfortable unwanted advances from strangers are, but are somehow too stupid to see the irony that they do to women what they’re afraid gay men will do to them

bunch of A+ dudes

This cognitive dissonance brought to you by Women Are Asking For It brand sexism. Get yours today, whether you want to or not.

Monday, March 11, 2013
Have I posted this before? I may have. Well, here it is again.
[Image description: A two-panel comic, titled “Men’s attitudes toward male videogame stereotypes”. The first panel has the heading, “Normally”, and features a guy saying, “It’s brotastic!” The second panel has the heading, “After women complain about female stereotypes”. In it, same guy says, “Hey we’re stereotyped too and it really hurts. Really.”]

Have I posted this before? I may have. Well, here it is again.

[Image description: A two-panel comic, titled “Men’s attitudes toward male videogame stereotypes”. The first panel has the heading, “Normally”, and features a guy saying, “It’s brotastic!” The second panel has the heading, “After women complain about female stereotypes”. In it, same guy says, “Hey we’re stereotyped too and it really hurts. Really.”]

Sunday, March 10, 2013 Wednesday, March 6, 2013
When men feel inconsequential, it’s easier to blame women than it is to confront patriarchy-the true source of the diminishment and lack of meaning in so many men’s lives. When men feel unloved and disconnected, it’s easier to accuse women of not loving them well enough than it is to consider men’s own alienation from life. It’s easier to think of women as keeping men from the essence of their own lives than it is to see how men’s participation in patriarchy can suffocate and kill the life within themselves. It’s easier to theorize about powerful, devouring mothers than to confront the reality of patriarchy.

Beneath the massive denial of men’s power and responsibility and its projection onto women is an enormous pool of rage, resentment, and fear. Rather than look at patriarchy and their place within it, many men will beat, rape, torture, murder, and oppress women, children, and one another. They will wage mindless war and offer themselves up for the slaughter, chain themselves to jobs and work themselves to numbed exhaustion as if their lives had no value or meaning beyond controlling or being controlled or defending against control, and content themselves with half-lives of confused, lost deprivation. What men lack, women didn’t take from them, and it isn’t up to women to give it back.

Allan G. Johnson (via wretchedoftheearth)

What men lack, women didn’t take from them, and it isn’t up to women to give it back.

What men lack, women didn’t take from them, and it isn’t up to women to give it back.

What men lack, women didn’t take from them, and it isn’t up to women to give it back.

(via wretchedoftheearth)

[speaking straight white cis for a moment here, because I have to deal with this so often]

A lot of times men get angry at me when I don’t address the problems men face. Women have fought to make the world a better place for them to live in. Why don’t men do the same? For some reason, men want women to fix their lives too. (That was a rhetorical question, by the way. It’s because sexist tropes make women into plot points, catalysts for male character development, homemakers, and manic pixie dream girl muses. We’re expected to change their lives for the better. It’s written into the definition of womanhood.)

There are genuine problems that men face, problems also created by patriarchy: Not being allowed to show any emotion other than rage. Being held to strict standards of masculinity that require them to disrespect women and one-up each other to maintain a sense of identity. The required neurotic aversion to anything even remotely feminine that forbids any kind of empathetic connection to other human beings. Getting attacked for showing any kind of vulnerability.

These are problems that men have approached me with and demanded I address them, as if I as a feminist have any influence over how men define their manhood. Instead of complaining that feminists should fix all the problems that men create and perpetuate, men need to organize themselves to change these things. And while you’re at it, tell the MRA’s to give it a rest. They’re just making it worse for you.

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

skinks:

why can’t feminism be spread like vampirism and zombies and shit like you bite someone and they stop being a misogynistic fucktrumpet

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